Thursday, July 28, 2011

Break Up's



When it comes to break up's, it is hard.  No one likes being hurt.   Some people thing living alone and not interacting with others will give them closure and some of them think time to find a new one to get in to .  In a perfect world it would.

However, the truth is no answer will help you heal.  Time will.  It doesn't feel good to be told 'My feelings for you have changed', let alone that you cause too much drama, are psycho, are too clingy, that my life is so stressed that I cannot deal with anything else, etc.  

The claim you want to learn from this as to not make the same mistake is honest bull crap.   You have to be true to yourself and stay you. You have to be happy with the person you are.   If someone doesn't like something about you, it is their loss, as someone else may find it endearing and adorable.  

In real , Break up's are never easy, it will never. You will always need time to heal. Be social with others not to cry on or to discuss your break up story instead show others that it doesn't matter at all to you .Gear up your bike and start racing with your loneliness with more understanding that you were having with your past.  

Sometime it happens when you are going through with a break up, everybody who gave u shoulder to cry on, you start up felling that yes this is the one , I was waiting for, at that time u may overcome from your past (the one you think is your biggest mistake of life , wastage of time n so on ...) but in real you are giving an invitation to another break up.Time is your closure.
Stay Rock...

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